At the Minnesota Koronis CFO in 1968, Reg Goff tells of a farm wife whose alcoholic husband had abused her for thirty years. She met his hardness with unconditional welcome instead of argument, until he finally said, “if it’s your Jesus that’s making you do this, I want to know him.” He also tells of a father whose patient love undid his rebellious daughter’s resistance, and he defines love itself as “the desire to bless with everything you have.”